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To prepare ourselves for a joyful Christmas and to make a faithful start to a new year in Christ’s service, your church is offering a variety of services and activities during this Advent and Christmas season. To aid your devotion, you may also pick up a copy of our Advent devotional, Darkness Then Light: Stories of illumination for the Season of Advent, from the narthex. We hope you will join us and invite a friend to experience with you the grace and love of God in this holy season.
Advent and Christmas Podcasts
Brian Stevenson, Director of Music Ministries at Pender UMC, played harp music for the holiday season. Some of his selections are Ding Dong Merrily On High, Angels We Have Heard On High and Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas.
2025 Advent and Christmas Events at Pender
- ✓ Christmas in November, November 16-17
- ✓ Advent Began, November 30
- ✓ Decorating for Advent, November 30
- United Women of Faith Cookie Exchange, December 6
- Bread Baking Day, December 6
- Second Sunday of Advent, December 7
- Fellowship Feast, December 7
- Santa's Ride, December 9
- Christmas Celebration at Fairfax Juvenile Detention Center, December 13
- Christmas Caroling, December 13
- Third Sunday of Advent, December 14
- Fourth Sunday of Advent, December 21
- Christmas Eve, December 24
- Christmas Morning, December 25
- The First Sunday After Christmas, December 28
- Watch Night, December 31
- Epiphany, January 6, 2026
Christmas in November
November 16 and 17, we packed our bags and headed to the town of Philippi, West Virginia, on a mission of love and cheer! Our youth mission trip is all about spreading joy to those living on Chestnut Ridge who might not otherwise experience the magic of Christmas!
Everyone had the opportunity to select a child from our Angel tree. Follow the instructions on the card to buy, pray over, and donate the gift that will light up their faces and fill their hearts with joy!
Our Pender Team joined forces with local Philippi youth to wrap those gifts with love!
This mission trip is not just about giving; it’s about sharing hope, love, and the true meaning of Christmas. Let’s show the world the power of God and the promise of the season!
We Brought hope and love to Chestnut Ridge again this Christmas!
Advent Begins on November 30

The First Sunday of Advent (Christ Our Hope)
Scripture Readings: Isaiah 2:1-5, Psalm 122 >br> Romans 13:11-14, Matthew 24:36-44
Advent, derived from the Latin word "adventus" meaning "coming" or "visit," is a season imbued with anticipation and reflection, marking the commencement of the Christian liturgical year. Spanning four Sundays leading up to Christmas and culminating on Christmas Eve, Advent is a time of spiritual preparation, where Christians across the world ready their hearts for the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ.
This season is a journey through time—honoring the deep yearning of Jews for a Messiah and our own profound need for forgiveness, salvation, and a fresh start. Advent is a duality of celebration: it commemorates the historical birth of Jesus in a modest Bethlehem stable while simultaneously looking forward to the second coming of Christ, fulfilling the promises of the first.
Contrary to popular belief, the Christmas celebration extends beyond a single day. In Christian tradition, the festive season stretches from the sundown of December 24 (Christmas Eve) through to the Epiphany on January 6, often referred to as "the 12 days of Christmas."
The Advent Wreath, an emblem of this sacred period, traditionally adorns the dinner table as a vivid reminder of the holy season. With origins tracing back to Germany, the wreath is a circle of evergreen, symbolizing eternal life and unending growth, and is adorned with four candles—three purple and one pink. Each candle, lit progressively each Sunday of Advent, illuminates a path through the themes of hope, love, joy, and peace, mirroring the increasing light of Christ's presence in the world.
Purple, the traditional color of Advent symbolizing penitence and royalty, is often used, though some churches have adopted blue, the color of hope. Today, as Christmas symbols and decorations blend into Advent observance, hues of red, green, and gold are increasingly seen.
Advent is not merely a countdown to Christmas; it's an invitation to delve deeper into the spiritual essence of this time of year. It's a call to embrace the words of Martin Luther King: "To be a Christian without prayer, is no more possible than to be alive without breathing." Each candle of the Advent Wreath, from the first symbolizing hope to the last radiating peace, invites us to reflect, pray, and prepare our hearts for the profound mystery and joy of the birth of Christ.
A few years ago, Pender members made short videos called “Advent Kindness Kits”. You can see them here:
Decorate for Christmas

Join us as to help bring the holiday spirit to life by decorating the Christmas trees in the narthex and Gathering Place, and adding beautiful Chrismon Trees to the sanctuary.
History of the Chrismon Tree:
The word “Chrismon” blends “Christ” and “monogram,” meaning “symbols of Christ.” These symbols have been used throughout history to represent the Christian faith, especially during times when public worship was restricted. Early Christians often used symbols like the fish to discreetly mark places of worship or identify fellow believers.
In 1957, Mrs. Harry W. Spencer of the Lutheran Church of the Ascension in Danville, Virginia, introduced Chrismons as a Christ-centered alternative to traditional Christmas decorations. Since then, Chrismon trees have adorned churches around the world during Advent and Christmas, filled with ornaments rich in spiritual meaning.
Significance of Chrismon Trees:
Chrismon trees are traditionally adorned with white and gold ornaments to symbolize the perfection, purity, nobility, and glory of Christ. The evergreen tree itself represents eternal life, while its white lights remind us that Christ is the Light of the World.
Popular Chrismon Ornament Symbols:
* Star: Represents the Bethlehem star, the wounds of Jesus, or the gospels.
* Triangle: Symbolizes the Holy Trinity—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
* Cross: Comes in many forms, each with unique meaning, such as the Jerusalem Cross or Latin Cross.
* Dove: A symbol of the Holy Spirit.
* Lamb: Represents Jesus, the Lamb of God.
* Fish: An ancient symbol used to guide Christians to places of worship.
This tradition is a wonderful way to keep Christ at the center of our celebrations, and we are so grateful to our youth for their contribution to making this season extra special.
The background music is played by Pender's Carillon Ringers as they shared "Come, thou long expected Jesus” as the prelude to worship on December 8, 2024.
United Women of Faith Cookie Exchange

Come begin your holiday season with a Christmas Cookie Exchange in the Gathering Place! Bring 3 dozen decorated cookies to share and exchange. Stay and chat over tea, coffee and hot apple cider -- and you will have some lovely cookies to take home and enjoy! We'll have some fun prizes too!
Also we'll accept cookie donations for the Juvenile Detention Center (JDC) Christmas Party which will be held at JDC the following week.
Bread of Life

Join Us for Bread of Life!
Get ready to roll up your sleeves and spread some love!
What:Bread of Life – A chance to give back to the community!
When: First Saturday of every month, Starting October 5th! 9:00 AM – 12:30 PM
Where: Pender UMC Kitchen
12401 Alder Woods Drive, Fairfax, VA 22033
Why join us?
- We provide all the ingredients. You bring your enthusiasm and a heart full of love!
- Meet new friends while making a real difference.
- Help those in need and feel the joy of giving back.
All are welcome! Whether you're a seasoned chef or just love the smell of fresh bread, there's a spot for you in our kitchen. Together, we can knead some dough and do good!
See you there – let’s make magic happen!
The Second Sunday of Advent (Christ the Way)

Scripture Readings: Isaiah 11:1-10, Psalm 72:1-7, 18-19, Romans 15:4-13, Matthew 3:1-12
Holy Communion, Carillon Handbells
Fellowship Feast

Please bring a salad or dessert to share. We will provide homemade soup and bread.
Fresh bread made for Communion Sundays and First Sunday Fellowship Feast luncheons.
Extra loaves are donated next day to the Lamb Center.
Santa's Ride Toy Donation



Christmas Celebration at Fairfax Juvenile Detention Center

Pender United Methodist Church, will host a Christmas Celebration party at the Fairfax Juvenile Detention Center (JDC).
This is an annual social engagement of our congregation, people from the community, and incarcerated youth, and the staff that serve and support them at Fairfax JDC.
No special skills needed, come with an open heart and spirit to sing carols, eat pizza, and share God's love with incarcerated youth.
Christmas Caroling

Christmas Caroling, Greenbriar, 3:00pm
Let's make merry memories!
Join us at Pender at 3:00 pm for a festive journey through the neighborhood, spreading the holiday cheer with joyous Christmas carols.
Together, we'll light up the streets with our voices and share the magic of the season!
Advent Continues

The Third Sunday of Advent (Christ Our Joy)
Scripture Readings: Isaiah 35:1-10, Luke 1:46b-55 James 5:7-10, Matthew 11:2-11
Joy Ringers Handbells
The season of Advent, which comes comes from the Latin word adventus meaning "coming" or "visit," begins four Sundays before Christmas and ends on Christmas Eve. Advent is the beginning of the church year for Christians.
During Advent, we prepare for and anticipate the coming of Christ. We remember the longing of Jews for a Messiah and our own longing for and need of forgiveness, salvation and a new beginning. Even as we look back and celebrate the birth of Jesus in a humble stable in Bethlehem, we also look forward anticipating the second coming of Christ as the fulfillment of all that was promised by his first coming.
Although we are accustomed to celebrating Christmas on a single day, in both Christian tradition and on the church calendar, the Christmas season lasts from sundown on Dec. 24 (Christmas Eve) through Epiphany of the Lord (Jan. 6). This is sometimes referred to as "the 12 days of Christmas."
Advent begins with the fourth Sunday before Christmas Day.
The color for Advent has traditionally been purple, although some churches have adopted blue. In practice, however, as churches increasingly incorporate the symbols and decorations of Christmas during Advent, more and more red, green and gold are appearing. The United Methodist Book of Worship upholds the traditional color of purple for Advent, signifying penitence and royalty, but also allows blue, the color of hope."
Adapted from https://www.resourceumc.org/en/content/to-be-united-methodist-what-is-advent
Advent Continues

The Fourth Sunday of Advent (Christ Our Peace)
Scripture Readings: Isaiah 7:10-16, Psalm 80:1-7, 17-19 Romans 1:1-7, Matthew 1:18-25
Service of Word, Drama, and Song, with children and youth
The season of Advent, which comes comes from the Latin word adventus meaning "coming" or "visit," begins four Sundays before Christmas and ends on Christmas Eve. Advent is the beginning of the church year for Christians.
During Advent, we prepare for and anticipate the coming of Christ. We remember the longing of Jews for a Messiah and our own longing for and need of forgiveness, salvation and a new beginning. Even as we look back and celebrate the birth of Jesus in a humble stable in Bethlehem, we also look forward anticipating the second coming of Christ as the fulfillment of all that was promised by his first coming.
Although we are accustomed to celebrating Christmas on a single day, in both Christian tradition and on the church calendar, the Christmas season lasts from sundown on Dec. 24 (Christmas Eve) through Epiphany of the Lord (Jan. 6). This is sometimes referred to as "the 12 days of Christmas."
Advent begins with the fourth Sunday before Christmas Day.
The color for Advent has traditionally been purple, although some churches have adopted blue. In practice, however, as churches increasingly incorporate the symbols and decorations of Christmas during Advent, more and more red, green and gold are appearing. The United Methodist Book of Worship upholds the traditional color of purple for Advent, signifying penitence and royalty, but also allows blue, the color of hope."
Adapted from https://www.resourceumc.org/en/content/to-be-united-methodist-what-is-advent
Christmas Eve 7:00 pm

Candles, Carols and Communion
Scripture Readings: Isaiah 9:2-7, Psalm 96 Titus 2:11-14, Luke 2:1-20
Service of Candlelight, Communion, and Special Music
Christmas Offering for Missions
Step into the warmth and joy of our Christmas Eve candlelight service, a time-honored tradition that promises to fill your heart with the spirit of the season. As flickering candles cast a soft, inviting glow, you'll be enveloped in the rich harmonies of cherished Christmas carols. Sing along with us, letting the familiar melodies transport you to a place of peace and nostalgia.
Immerse yourself in the profound beauty of scripture reading and inspiring preaching, offering moments of reflection and hope. This is a time to reconnect with the essence of Christmas and find solace in its timeless messages.
A highlight of our service is the Holy Communion, a sacred and unifying experience that brings us closer together as a community of faith. It's a moment to pause, give thanks, and feel the presence of something greater than ourselves.
But that's not all – our service holds a special treasure for our youngest attendees. A children's message, crafted especially for them, will light up their eyes with wonder and fill their hearts with the joy of the season.
And, for a truly unique experience, our music will be a harmonious blend of the old and the new. The Traditional and Common Ground teams are joining forces to create a musical tapestry that weaves classical hymns with contemporary tunes. This blend of music promises to lift your spirits and leave you with a heart full of Christmas cheer.
Join us for an evening where community, tradition, and celebration come together in a beautiful tapestry of festive joy. We can't wait to share this special night with you!
Christmas Morning 11:00 am

Scripture Readings: Isaiah 52:7-10, Psalm 98 Hebrews 1:1-4, John 1;1-14
Pender is invited to join KUMC-K for their traditional service
Pastor Bruce will preach.
The First Sunday after Christmas, 10:00 am

Scripture Readings: Isaiah 63:7-9, Psalm 148 Hebrews 2:10-18, Matthew 2:13-23
Singing our favorite Christmas Carols
Watch Night, 8:00 pm on December 31

Pastor Youngbong Kim will preach
Scripture Readings: Ecclesiastes 3:1-3, Psalm 8 Revelation 21:1-6a, Matthew 25:31-46
As the clock ticks toward a new beginning, Pender and KUMC will host a heartfelt celebration to welcome 2026!
On December 31st at 8 PM, we will come together for a special combined worship service, embracing the new year with open arms and uplifted spirits.
The atmosphere will be filled with joy, reflection, and anticipation as we prepare to bid farewell to the old year and step into the promises of 2026.




